California’s go-to therapist for gay men and couples.
In-person therapy in Palm Springs and virtual anywhere in California.
You built a life in paradise, but now it’s not going as planned. Retirement, health changes, too much time together—and suddenly, you’re in a full-blown standoff over throw pillows (they were FINE where they were, Robert!).
Maybe you’re juggling dating, self-worth, or old trauma and need some individual attention.
You want to feel confident, centered, and fabulous again. To wake up excited—fully alive and completely at home in your own skin.
Or have your relationship feel like a partnership, not a prison.
I help you stop settling for what you think you can get and start creating what you actually would LOVE! With a tailored mix of talk therapy and mind/body techniques from EMDR to breathwork and hypnotherapy, we’ll rewire old patterns and make real change happen.
I’ve spent 30 years helping people untangle their lives, from high-achieving CEOs to retired couples wondering why they aren’t getting along anymore.
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Limited spots available as I keep a small case load to ensure quality.
Why spend another day …
→ Swiping through dating apps, wondering if this is really as good as it gets
→ Bickering over how to load the dishwasher instead of enjoying one another
→ Feeling like retirement is just one long, awkward staring contest with your partner
→ Avoiding mirrors, parties, or certain conversations because deep down, you’re not feeling like you anymore
→ Being overwhelmed about non-traditional relationship options and feeling
→ Letting old fears, past heartbreaks, or that voice in your head keep you stuck in the same damn loop
→ Watching everyone else live boldly while you sit on the sidelines, overthinking your next move
A sample platter of concepts we might explore …
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→ Discover how creating a vision for your life shifts you from stuck to thriving.
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→ What nobody tells you. Your self-esteem isn’t found, it’s built.
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→ Get unstuck and start designing a life you love.
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→ The real reason you're feeling lost. Let's get curious.
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→ The secret to confidence—it’s not faking it, it’s rewiring your mindset.
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→ Why playing small feels safe—but is actually what’s holding you back.
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→ What if your biggest dreams aren’t ridiculous, but inevitable?
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→ How to stop settling in love, career, and self-worth.
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→ You won’t believe what happens when you stop waiting and start creating.
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→ Why visualization works—it’s not woo-woo, it’s science-backed magic.
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→ Strategies to find self-love and happiness when the world feels like it’s on fire.
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→ What nobody tells you about building a relationship that actually works.
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→ The sneaky ways fear and shame keep you small—and how to break free.
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→ Forget “shoulds” and consider "coulds."
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→ The fastest way to shift from burnout to fully alive.
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→ Your next chapter starts now—stop waiting for permission.
Meet Your Therapist
Hi, I'm Randall.
Before full time private practice in Palm Springs, I spent 23 years as a therapist at Kaiser Permanente in Los Angeles handling everything from full-scale psychiatric emergencies to patients working on improving their self esteem.
These days I keep it real, keep it fun, and keep my clients moving forward. Together we can figure it out.
I believe in growth, resilience, and not settling for a life that feels “fine.” Let’s figure out what great looks like for you.
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→ Emory & Henry College, BA Econ and Pol Sci
→ Smith College School for Social Work, MSW
→ University of Maryland, MS in Business
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